November 10th, 2009 - 5 Comments
I’ve been thinking a lot about this quote today:
Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of “what if” and “if only.”
- Thomas S. Monson
How true that is. Have you ever noticed, when busy on a project, how easy to stop caring about what friends are saying? You nod your head and laugh at the required times, but you’re gone the whole time. I feel that way pretty often–I’m a task-oriented person. Throughout the day, my thoughts don’t stray far from my “to do” list and my carefully laid-out plans. Ask anyone that’s ever lived with me–I’m so organized, it’s a miracle I can eat Alpha-Bits cereal without having a panic attack.
In an attempt at correcting my course, let me point out the problem with my habit–life doesn’t follow plans. It wasn’t meant to; it’s full of people, and human beings are not programs or machines. Plans are a predictable map of a mechanical future; life is the story that happens instead.
In our unpredictable life, then, we often have to choose between turning the moment over to people or to tasks. When we reflect back over our memories some day, I doubt that our brightest moments will have been filled with busywork. For this reason, I believe that procrastination can be a virtue. At the proper time, it’s a display of enlightened priorities; don’t let the businessmen on Wall Street tell you otherwise. Life, in truth, holds nothing more important than time with loved ones. I think we all want to grow old with a head full of memories, even if that means a few less Washingtons in our wallet.